I've asked some people in my mailing list on subject of marriage compatibility, inquiring about their marriage compatibility troubles and questions in mind. I have had a lot of replies to that email, so I decided to answer the 3 of the questions that I found common in this article. Here you go.
1) How to discover whether my spouse really loves me?
Good question. I'll try to be very tactful here. Let's put it that way - if you indeed loves a guy or a girl how would you demonstrate that? How would you make it clearly seen for your spouse to feel that you really feel all warm and loving about him or her?
In principal - you try to show your affection toward the guy or girl, right? You show attention in what that person tells you, maybe even admire the person for something and certainly care in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes glisten when looking at the other person. You seem very keen to be in his or her company with the guy or girl.
Do you feel that kind of loving from your partner? Is he or she interested in you? Show sympathy? I want you to see if it is so.
2) How to build up the feelings between us?
Real liking basically depends on really agreeing even admire the way the other person looks and what he or she tells you. So, you can do your best to look good for your partner and ALSO make some effort to be more fascinating for your partner. You can try to remember what your partner likes in the way you look and enhance it. And, on the contrary, you can remove the things that your loved one would not like to see in you.
I am not telling about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people suggest that you should be, because there lays unhappiness and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I'm talking about spending your guys' time together as pleasantly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.
And I certainly suggest you give compliments to things you like about your partner. And, on the contrary, suggest some small betterment, but very gently and never demanding. As in: "You know, that tie would look so nice on you, why wouldn't you try it on you?"
I talk more in my free marriage compatibility report to understand more about being interesting to your partner.
3) The hardest thing about maintaining a romance alive is not to get angry on your spouse.
I certainly agree with that. Judging by the experience I gained, a person can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that happened to him in the past. And those reactions can happen without him or her really being in control of it.
One good thing about it - the more we take some rest and the better our mood is, the less is the possibility that such reactions can happen to us. So my advice is - rest more and do your best to keep your mind in good shape. I'll give some good advice on this in my future articles.
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