I guess you like your partner, you find him or her interesting and lovely, but you still have worrying thoughts, for instance:
- For how long can it endure?
- Would he or she keep finding me attractive?
- Would we be able to talk to each other after some time?
Questions like these can leave us worried sometimes and in any case it would be very comforting just to have some reliable information to be able to test if you guys are compatible.
After your can answer the questions above and others similar to yourself with enough keep passing , the life would become easier and lighter, the mind would stop being worried with those unnecessary thoughts and instead you'd be enjoying life together light heartedly.
I want to give you 10 important tips about what to discuss with your partner and yourself to test if your life would go smoothly together or there would be quite a few arguments and quarrels in your life.
Please, know beforehand, that whatever you decide your relationship compatibility is, based on the test I suggest, something can be done about it! And surely not little, for that matter. But you'd better know where you stand, wouldn't you?
Here are the questions and yes they are simple but very deep, when looked into thoroughly:
1. What do you like doing compared to what your partner does?
2. What do you hate doing compared to what your partner does?
3. What do you like talking about and what your partner does?
4. What do you rather not talk about and what about your partner?
5. What do you like listening to and what your partner does?
6. What would you really not listen to? What about your partner?
7. What do you both think a person should have to be happy?
8. What do you both think a person better not have to be well?
9. What do each of you dream to become if that would be possible?
10. Where would you really hate finding yourself as a person?
Very important and basic questions don't you think? But they quite often point out the mental state and the envisioned future of the couple. According to some very serious works, a person almost always finds himself exactly where he thinks he would be and his liking or disliking seldom change too sharply.
So what I encourage you to do is to ask those questions yourself and your partner and try to decide just how much of a common ground you have right now. That might give you a very good starting point.
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