Let's take an interesting approach in testing whether a person you are with is compatible with you or not. How to do it?
How to know if a film, which you read about just before you go to a cinema, would interest you? How to know if a book, you are about to read would give you pleasure? How to know if a song from a familiar group would delight you?
We all have certain feelings inside us, which help us decide, if one thing is better than other for us. But let's get less mystical and try to say in words what is exactly that feeling here?
I'd say it is a combination of former experience, education and knowledge and also intuition. And if we add to this a desire to check things out, we can succeed in figuring out by ourselves our relationship compatibility, at least to some degree of reliability and reasonableness.
Films or books - you've watched some and have read some, let's say adventures and you know you like it. What does an adventures book tell you about? Action! Fantasy! Different people and strong or fascinating characters. And you know that you like it, right?
So when you see another book or film telling you 'Adventure' you'll probably want at least to look at it and maybe even buy it or see it.
What we are talking about is attraction and agreement toward certain sorts of things. Therefore if you in the past liked a person for being strong or brave, kind or gentle, full of stories or quiet, then you'll probably keep liking this sort of people in the future, wouldn't you?
People don't change fast. They certainly do but it takes some time or troublesome matters to make them worse or, on the contrary, some powerful personality changing technology to make them better or just different.
So if you just think of people you liked in the past or in the present for some long enough period of time and then assemble a list of what you liked about them, you could come up with a very important assessment that could help you decide whether another person would cause you to want to be around for times to come.
Here is a very short list of things to check about the people you like:
1.What is it in the person you like looking at?
2.What is it that you like listening about from that person?
3.What is it that you agree about that person?
4.What is it that you would like to become regarding the person?
5.What is it that you want to have in common with that person?
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